Friday, May 31, 2013

Monthly Recap: May 2013


I only got six books read this book! I was hoping to read several more but a few of these were really big and I didn't have as much time to read as I'd hoped. Since I'm cutting back a bit on the blog next month, I'm aiming to read around 10 books in June - wish me luck!


  • Chantress by Amy Butler Greenfield (3.5 stars)
 

 
  • I participated in the cover reveal for Janeal Falor’s debut, You Are Mine
   

  
How many books did you read in May? What was your favourite one? Least favourite? What are you looking forward to reading in June? If you have a post you were especially proud of in May, leave a link in the comments so I can check it out!


Thursday, May 30, 2013

Slowing down for summer

In the last few weeks, I've come to a realization that I hate to admit: blogging has lost some of its appeal. Don't get me wrong, I still love it - I love writing reviews and discussions, hosting blog tours and giveaways, talking to all you awesome people, and knowing I'm not alone when I totally geek out over awesome books. But with every passing week, it's becoming less about fun and more about work, and it's stressing me out big time.

Here's the thing: I don't have much of a life. My friends don't have time for me (I know that sounds kinda high school but it's true; they're all married or in relationships and have kids and do things with other couples/parents), so for the last couple years my life has been about writing, reading, blogging, and helping to raise my nephews. I've buried myself in those things because they're all I have, and I don't know what I'd do otherwise. But I've sort of lost myself along the way. I don't know who I'd be if I wasn't an author or a blogger or an aunt, and I feel like it's time to find out.

I don't want to give up blogging. I love it too much and I'd miss my blogging friends way too much. But I've been having trouble finding balance between real life and online life, and I feel like it's time to focus on real life...as in I want to HAVE one. So I'm going to slow down a bit over the summer. On a typical week, I post Monday-Saturday. As any blogger knows, it takes hours to write five to six blog posts every week - the reviews, the discussions, the features, the spotlights, the tours, etc. I used to love the challenge of it, but now I feel like I'm either freaking out and scrambling to get everything done or I go the complete opposite way and just say 'who cares' and don't bother scheduling anything. I don't want to feel that way - I want to find the joy in blogging again.

My solution: starting in June, I'm only going to be posting about three times a week. Sometimes it might be more, sometimes it might be less. I figure I'll do two reviews and a discussion each week if I can manage. I've been getting behind in my reading, so I'm going to take the time I would be blogging and I'm going to catch up and hopefully get ahead with my reading so I can schedule a bunch of reviews and really take some time off from blogging. I made a Summer 2013 Reading List, and I'm hoping to get most, if not all, the books read (heh - wish me luck!). I'm also hoping to come up with some new features for the blog to keep things fresh.

I don't know what this summer is going to bring. I don't have a single plan. If I had my way, I'd travel, meet a couple of my online friends, go on epic adventures, and really remember what it's like to live and have fun and be happy. But since I'll probably be stuck here all summer, I'm going to make my own adventures (and live vicariously through some bookish adventures too). I want to go swimming and play tourist in my own city and meet new people and take a gazillion pictures. Plus, my family will be expanding in another week or so with the arrival of my very first niece. Being an aunt is one of the greatest joys in my life, and I want to spend as much time with my nephews and niece as possible. 

I also have some fun stuff going on at my personal blog. It's kind of fallen by the wayside while I concentrated on Ramblings of a Daydreamer, so I'm planning more posts for this summer. Yesterday I started a new feature called 'That Time I...' where each week I'll talk about (and share pictures of) something special/fun/memorable I've done. Yesterday's post was about the time I went up the CN Tower.


Also, next Monday I'm starting a new feature called Gilmore Girls Mondays. Molli, Jessica, and I will be starting a watch-along together in June, and every Monday I'll be talking about the episodes I watched, sharing my thoughts, favourite scenes, favourite quotes, etc. I know there are a ton of Gilmore Girls fans out there, so I'm hoping to start some fun discussions about the show. We don't have a schedule, we're just going to be watching at our own pace, so if anyone wants to watch along and then tweet us/join in the discussions on Lost and Found, we'd love it - the more the merrier!



I really do love the blogging community. I appreciate every single visitor, every single comment, every single book or blogging-related tweet (and all the other tweets too of course!). It thrills me every time someone tells me they read a book because of a review I wrote, or seeks me out to start a discussion about a book they read and know I love. You guys make it all worth it, even when it does become stressful trying to keep up. So thank you. Thank you for visiting, commenting, following, and sticking with me. I appreciate it more than you can imagine.

Want to keep up with what's happening in my writing? Like my Facebook page. Want to talk about books, TV shows (particularly Friends, Gilmore Girls, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Road to Avonlea, and Downton Abbey), music, or anything else? Tweet me! Want to see my photography and learn more about me beyond writing and reading? Check out Lost and Found - Reflections of a Daydreamer. I hope you all have a fantastic summer!


 

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Review: My Life After Now by Jessica Verdi



My Life After Now by Jessica Verdi
Series: Standalone
Published: April 2nd, 2013
Publisher: Sourcebooks Fire
287 pages (e-ARC)
Genre: Contemporary young adult
Acquired this book: From the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
Warning: May contain spoilers
{GoodReads || Buy this book: Book Depository || Amazon || Chapters/Indigo}

Lucy just had the worst week ever. Seriously, mega bad. And suddenly, it's all too much—she wants out. Out of her house, out of her head, out of her life. She wants to be a whole new Lucy. So she does something the old Lucy would never dream of.

And now her life will never be the same. Now, how will she be able to have a boyfriend? What will she tell her friends? How will she face her family?

Now her life is completely different...every moment is a gift. Because now she might not have many moments left.



My Life After Now is a very emotional, authentic look at the life of a teenage girl who seemed to have it all but who made one mistake that changed her life forever. I’ve never read any novels about HIV, and I was curious to see how the author would handle such a serious subject. I think it was brave of Verdi to write this book - HIV is something that doesn’t get talked about enough, and My Life After Now explores it in an honest way that doesn’t sugarcoat things.

This book was a great contemporary read while also being an eye-opener about a very real, very scary subject. Lucy was an average girl - a good student and a talented actress who had great friends, a wonderful family, and a boyfriend. She had a well-balanced life and the only thing that set her apart was the fact she had two dads (which I loved, by the way - Verdi clearly wasn’t afraid to go all out and be different). Lucy’s safe little world was set off-kilter with the arrival of her birth mother, who had been in and out of her life a few other times, and had done nothing but leave Lucy feeling confused and hurt. Between that and other things that made Lucy feel like she was having the worst week ever, she needed an escape. That escape happened to be something a lot of people probably would have done, which made the book that much more real - it showed that one stupid choice, one seemingly harmless mistake can end up having serious, life-changing consequences.

I liked Lucy a lot. There were times I wanted to shake her for the way she acted, but I also understood her motives and her line of thinking. Nobody knows how they would react to life-altering news, and everybody deals with things differently. She didn’t necessarily handle it in the best ways, but she was scared and angry, plus she was only seventeen. Her attitude, actions, and reactions all felt very genuine to me, and I liked her even when I didn’t like what she was doing or how she was acting. What really got to me was the fact that she was sweet and smart with a bright future to look forward to - the exact type of person you would never think would end up sitting in a clinic being told she had HIV.

My Life After Now had all the elements of a great contemporary - strong, likeable heroine, a great cast of secondary characters, romance, and real life problems. Lucy’s best friends Max and Courtney were the type of friends anyone would be lucky to have, and her dads were loving and supportive. I enjoyed the different relationships and dynamics between the characters, and I liked the element of romance and that it wasn’t the main focus of the story.

It was clear that Verdi did her research for this book. Through the eyes of a scared teenage girl, we get to see everything from the types of tests involved when diagnosing HIV to the questions that would be asked by counselors and doctors to the steps required/suggested after diagnosis. I appreciated that the book was educational without ever being the least bit preachy. Sex education is obviously something that needs to be a bigger part of schools and home lessons because many people are still ignorant about STIs (when did they start being called that? I feel so old) and HIV/AIDS. I know that if I had a teenage daughter, I’d want her to read this book.

My Life After Now shed light on a serious subject in a way that was thought provoking, heartbreaking, and yet inspirational. It wasn’t always comfortable, but it was always honest and real. With elements of humour, romance, and personal triumph mixed in with the frightening reality of life with HIV, My Life After Now is a sparkling debut from Jessica Verdi that shouldn’t be missed. 


 Have you read My Life After Now? What did you think? How do you feel about books that deal with tough, real-life situations? What are some of your favourite 'issue' books?

 

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Summer Lovin' Read-a-thon


 The Summer Lovin’ Read-a-thon is a week-long read-a-thon event hosted by seven independent bloggers: Oh, Chrys!, Tumbling Books, Effortlessly Reading, Love Life Read, Shelf Addiction, Read Sleep Repeat, and Reviewing Wonderland

Spend the week reading at your own pace, when and how you want to. There will be daily challenges for awesome prizes and opportunities to get points toward the Grand Prize Packs.

As if that weren’t enough – the week will end with a 24-hr marathon read-a-thon! Twitter parties, mini-challenges, games, prizes given EVERY HOUR, and more chances to get points toward the Grand Prize Packs.

Sign-ups will be open through July 6th. I’m in, are you?!

Saturday, May 25, 2013

What's Happening + Stacking the Shelves May 25th

Hello my bookish darlings! I've got two weeks' worth of What's Happening and Stacking the Shelves to share with you. Be sure to check the top of my blog for the giveaways I have open - there are three international ones!



The Firebird by Susanna Kearsley {GoodReads}
Born of Illusion by Teri Brown {GoodReads}
My Life After Now by Jessica Verdi {GoodReads}
Lucky Bastard by Deborah Coonts {GoodReads}

Halfway to the Grave by Jeaniene Frost {GoodReads}


  • I reviewed The Firebird by Susanna Kearsley and gave it 4.5 stars
  • I reviewed Lucky Bastard by Deborah Coonts as part of the blog tour, and I’m giving away all three of Deborah’s e-novellas!
 
For those of you who have been following the saga of my health issues this year, I saw the doctor yesterday for what will hopefully be the last time in a long time...the tests I had to have on my heart, along with my blood tests all came back clean! *happy dances* The flutters in my chest are apparently nothing to worry about, and are fairly common in women my age. AND my back is doing much better...it's been 16.5 weeks since I hurt it and it's still not 100% but I'm so much more mobile than I was and I'm hardly in pain anymore *knocks on wood* which feels like a miracle. It's been a long year so far. 

Other than that, it's been a quiet week. I was actually in all week except for yesterday, and I started writing my fourth novel! *more happy dancing* I don't really know where it's going but it's a start after feeling really unmotivated since publishing WAITING FOR THE STORM last month. 

I've been watching: the season finale of Dancing With the Stars, season finale of Nashville (does anyone else watch this? None of my friends do and I LOVE it...that ending! OMG!), and my DVDs of S3 of Doctor Who (which I finished; I'll be starting S4 tonight), and S2 of Road to Avonlea.

What have you been up to lately? Happy long weekend to those of you in the States! We had our long weekend here last weekend. Anyone have any fun plans?


Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Tynga's Reviews



BOUGHT: 
Golden by Jessi Kirby {GoodReads}
Smart Girls Get What They Want by Sarah Strohmeyer {GoodReads}
The Sweetest Spell by Suzanna Selfors {GoodReads}
I’m Not Her by Janet Gurtler {GoodReads}
This Time Next Door by Gretchen Galway {GoodReads}
The Light Tamer by Devyn Dawson {GoodReads}

FOR REVIEW:
Leap of Faith by Jamie Blair {GoodReads}
The Angel Stone by Juliet Dark {GoodReads}
Sweet Thing by Renee Carlino {GoodReads}

*Thank you to Simon & Schuster, Ballantine Books, and Renee Carlino*

What books did you get this week? Tell me in the comments below or post a link to your Stacking the Shelves/Book Haul/In My Mailbox/Showcase Sunday, etc. Happy reading! <3

Friday, May 24, 2013

Hello, my name is Marie and I’m a nerd


The other day on my personal blog, I talked about how I’ve always been a closest geek. If you met me in person, you’d likely see that I’m very shy and kind of awkward, but you probably wouldn’t know I’m nerdy unless you got me talking about a certain subject. I was always different growing up, but I tried never to let it show. I wasn’t cool or popular, and I didn’t want to give the ‘cool kids’ any reason to notice me and make fun of me. It was already hard being overweight and shy and a hopeless daydreamer.

I was lucky in that I had a very small, but very close group of friends. I wasn’t bullied too badly, and I was never concerned about being popular because the popular kids seemed so full of themselves, and they were all the same - same clothes, same hairstyles, same way of speaking. I liked being different. I just didn’t want them to know it. 



It wasn’t until I started book blogging that I finally let my inner nerd out of hiding. I began meeting people who shared the same interests, and not just books, but TV shows, movies, and music. I realized I wasn’t the only one who fell in love with fictional boys, wished I was a student at Hogwarts, dreamed of far off fictional lands, and pictured myself living the lives of my favourite fictional characters. I soon learned that I could be a squeeing fangirl and I wouldn’t be judged. In fact, for the first time in my life, I’ve made friends by being a squeeing fangirl. Online, I can be myself. I can let it all out and say proudly that I’m a nerd and I don’t care who knows it. 
It’s so amazing to finally have people who get it. Who get me. It’s exciting to have someone seek me out to talk about a book or a TV show because they know I’ll get just as excited as they do about something specific. Some of the best conversations I’ve had in the last few months have been about fictional people.

Blogging has been an unexpected gift for me. I’ve met so many diverse people, made some incredible friends (two people that I consider among my closest friends are people I met through blogging and who I haven’t actually met in real life - YET), and I get to talk about my favourite thing: books. I can be honest, I can be nerdy, I can be me. In a world where someone is always trying to tell you who you should and shouldn't be, being able to simply be yourself is a pretty fantastic thing. 


What about you? Do you consider yourself a nerd? Has blogging been a gift for you? In what way?


Thursday, May 23, 2013

Blog Tour Review + Giveaway: Lucky Bastard by Deborah Coonts


Lucky Bastard by Deborah Coonts
Series: Lucky O’Toole Vegas Adventure, Book #4
Published: May 14th, 2013
Publisher: Forge Books
349 pages (hardcover)
Genre: Adult mystery/humour
Acquired this book: From the publisher in exchange for an honest review
Warning: May contain spoilers
{GoodReads || Buy this book: Book Depository || Amazon || Chapters/Indigo}

 {My review of Wanna Get Lucky? || My review of Lucky Stiff|| My review of So Damn Lucky}

Lucky O’Toole, the newly promoted vice president of Customer Relations for the Babylon, Las Vegas’s primo Strip property, has never met a problem she couldn’t handle. But when a young woman is found dead, sprawled across the hood of a new, bright red Ferrari California in the Babylon’s on-site dealership, a Jimmy Choo stiletto stuck in her carotid, Lucky’s skills are maxed out. Of course her life is already on overload. Her mother, Mona, is pregnant, hormonal, and bored — a triple threat. A song that Teddie, Lucky’s former lover, wrote for her is getting national airplay as he hits the talk shows, pleading for her forgiveness. Lucky is less than amused by the high-powered “infotainment” spotlight on her personal life. She’s having enough trouble fending off Chef Jean-Charles Bouclet, the Babylon’s tasty new dish. All of this and The Smack-Down Poker tournament, the second-largest poker tournament in the world, is holding its final round at the Babylon. Hookers, thieves, players, cheaters, media, and hangers-on descend, looking to win or to score. When one of the players turns up dead, Lucky starts to make connections between the two murders, putting her in the crosshairs of the killer. After a revelation by someone close to her sends her world reeling even further, Lucky struggles to keep her life in balance, and a murderer from killing again as bodies pile up. Then, just when she’s losing control…life deals another major complication to her personal life…and it’s not going to be pretty. Lucky struggles to keep her life in balance, and a murderer from killing again as bodies pile up.


Lucky O’Toole is back with her latest Vegas (mis)adventure, and this time it’s personal: the number one suspect in the murders is a friend. Lucky doesn’t know who to trust, and it makes for a great mixture of tension, danger, and mystery.

As always, it’s fun to catch up with Lucky. She’s tough, smart, independent, and I like her more with each novel. It’s been nice to see her growth throughout the novels, both personally and professionally. She’s been hurt, she’s had her heart broken, she’s seen more than most people in her line of work ever should, but she remains strong and keeps fighting. It was also nice to see her get her head on a bit straighter where her love life was concerned. I was really unhappy with how the romance(s) played out in the last book, but I thought Coonts did a good job of sorting things out this time around. I liked the blossoming relationship between Lucky and Jean-Charles (even though I still miss Teddie and have a soft spot for him, despite how he hurt Lucky), and I think he would be good for her. But, of course, with Lucky things are never quite that simple, and there’s still a lot to be sorted out in her romantic life.

With the past three books, I’ve had the same complaint: there were always far too many characters and the story got bogged down in trying to keep everyone - and their motives - straight. I was very pleased to discover that issue wasn't present in Lucky Bastard. There are still a lot of characters, but this time most of them were regulars, and after four books I feel like I really know these people. It’s like being reunited with friends (or enemies, as the case may be), and I didn’t have trouble keeping them straight. My only real complaint about Lucky Bastard was that it lacked the usual action, and that action was replaced by a lot of inner dialogue from Lucky, which consisted of a lot of repetitious self-pity and over-thinking things. The book was a decent length (it normally takes me at least a week to read a Lucky book and this one only took me a few days, which was a definite plus), but it could have been shorter and more concise without Lucky going over the same problems over and over in her mind.

On a personal note, I was really happy to see a deaf character in this book. My brother is deaf, and my city has one of the few deaf schools in the country, so I grew up among the deaf community. I appreciated Cole’s character being added in, and I loved his charm and his take-no-crap attitude - he reminded me a lot of my brother. 

Lucky Bastard was a great addition to the Lucky O’Toole Vegas Adventure series. We got to see some character growth not only from Lucky, but from some of the secondary characters as well (I really love Romeo). There was good set-up for the next novel (that ending! My mouth dropped open!) and I’m eager to find out what crazy misadventures Lucky will get into next.


Besides reading this book for the blog tour, I also read it as part of my Summer Reading 2013 personal reading challenge. In honour of Lucky, that yummy fruit smoothie has a healthy dose of alcohol in it. ;-)

Deborah Coonts’s mother tells her she was born in Texas a very long time ago, though she’s not totally sure - her mother can’t be trusted. But she was definitely raised in Texas on barbecue, Mexican food, and beer. She currently resides in Las Vegas, where family and friends tell her she can’t get into too much trouble. Silly people. Coonts has built her own business, practiced law, flown airplanes, written a humour column for a national magazine, and survived a teenager.

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One lucky winner (ok, I like bad puns as much as Lucky herself) will get all three of Deborah Coonts’s e-novellas: Lucky in Love, Lucky Bang, and Lucky Now and Then.

*Open internationally. A very special thank you to Deborah Coonts for providing this awesome prize!*




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